What is soft vs hard dom?

Soft and hard are two categories of BDSM doms, also known as Dominants. The defining characteristic of a dominant is their control over a submissive or sub.

A soft dom typically takes a more gentle approach to domination, focusing on communication, consent, and mutual pleasure. They may be more nurturing and attentive to the sub's emotional and physical needs, and may use gentle physical touch to assert their dominance.

A hard dom, on the other hand, takes a more aggressive approach. They may use physical pain or humiliation to assert their dominance, and may demand strict obedience from their sub. Some hard doms may be more focused on their own pleasure rather than the sub's.

It's important to note that the terms "soft" and "hard" are not necessarily indicative of a dom's level of experience or skill. A person can be a great dom regardless of which category they fall into, as long as they prioritize communication, consent, and safety in their interactions with their sub.